(Want to know what men/women want in a relationship?)
-Answers below my thought-

I believe healthy sex and relationships
involves becoming a better teacher
(Spring 2001)

I know that sex and orgasms are all psychological. Depending on the person, the situation involves different states of emotions, mental attitudes, physical health, personal taste, and more. I've listened to, read, and asked many people about sex and experiences. All interesting stories no matter how good, how bad, or funny the story may be.

Anyway, I was talking to a woman friend on the phone the other day about sex. She brought up a story about a lover that didn't satisfy her. I then realized something about sex. I realized that if you have a bad partner, you're obviously not a good teacher. People can be taught to do great things. If you want a better partner, then teach your student what you want them to do.

It could be that you're just not compatible. I don't know? But if you want a better partner, I say become a better teacher, or maybe a better student. I don't know about personal situations people are having that involve sex, so I can't say. Just a thought I had when I heard my friend say she had a bad sexual partner.

My point is that many people don't tell their partner the bad things they do. (No honesty/communication) For example: Some guys do things to women that they think the woman enjoys, but in reality, the woman hates it. I'll tell you all something... If you don't tell people what they are doing wrong (this includes almost any subject in a relationship besides sex) then that person will continue doing what they think is right. (People need to be told what they need to improve) In most negative sexual stories I've heard people tell me, I knew honesty and communication could help the problem, but most people were just too scared to tell their partner the truth about what they want.




These are a few shows I enjoy that involve love or sex:
"The Story of Us"
(Bruce Willis and Michelle Pfeiffer)
"Real Sex"
(HBO program about sex)
"Sex and the City"
(Interesting show on HBO)
"Sex bytes 2.4"
(Was on HBO or Showtime?)
"20 Dates"
(A documentary on a man looking for Love in L.A.)
"Naked States"
(A very artistic and spiritual pictorial documentary)
"Mating Habits"
(A comedy about human sexuality from an Alien viewpoint).
"The Science of Sex"
(My favorite Discovery Health Channel Show)
(This show involves the psychology and evolution of human sexuality)

(Human Growth & Development class)
(Summer of 2001)
What do men and women in today's society want in a relationship?
Willard F. Harley interviewed 3,000 couples to find out.
(The 5 great needs)

The picture below was sent to me in an e-mail.
I thought it was funny, so here you go...

"Loving relationships, though necessary for life, health and growth, are among the most complicated skills. Before we can be successful at achieving relationships, it is necessary that we broaden our understanding of how they work,
what they mean and how what we do and believe can enhance or destroy them ...
Loving relationships cannot be taken lightly."
-Dr. Leo Buscaglia-

"Men always want to be a woman's first love. Women like to be a man's last romance."
-Oscar Wilde-